“I recall I was six when it first happened, and then it happened again and kept happening. I was powerless; my predator made me feel powerless and weak. He made me believe I couldn’t help myself, and even if I reported him to anyone, he brought out a knife and demonstrated how he would kill me. He asked if I wanted to die and have wild animals eat my body. Just the imagination of the things he said to the little me sends shivers down my spine, as he demonstrated and acted everything out to me as if we were actors on stage. But the reality of the rape was enacted on my frail little body that was still budding. Maybe it was my tiny, sprouted breasts that made him latch onto me like loot—so I blamed myself. I also hated the fact that I was developing too fast. I felt the problem was me, and I took the blame and acted like a lamb being brutally slaughtered. I was not just being raped from six years of age, I was destroyed, shattered and broken. And the worst trauma was that I was raped the first day my mum died, “will I ever heal from this torture”? After the doctor had announced to me and my grandma that my mum had died; my grandma started rolling on the floor crying, few minutes later, like her senses just reminded her to call her other children and announce to them the sad news, then she looked at me. I grew up faster than I should, circumstances I was born into stole my childhood, I learnt everything very fast than the children in my age bracket. So, immediately my mum died I knew I had to be strong for my grandma, I don’t need to throw myself on the floor crying as she did, I held her even at six, it was as if my eyes were empty from tears yet I never cried; I collected my grandma’s phone and gradually dialed the numbers of all her six children, with teary eyes and wailing mouth she broke the sad news to them one after the other. So, my mum’s immediate younger sister was the first to arrive, after consoling my grandma, she called one of grandma’s siblings to come take her home, after then she took me to her house to stay with her children and dashed out immediately to take the remains of my mum to mortuary. I recalled; she left me with her two children, I was a year older than her first child. I just sat alone, wondering the meaning of death, where has my mother gone to, will she return years later, can she see me, how was I supposed to live without her, then tears welled from my eyes; My uncle’s voice snapped me out from my thought as his children ran to him, greeted and embraced him. I just sat still; held tight the teddy my cousins gave me perhaps to suck up my pains. I recalled immediately he glanced at me, he shouted at me to stand up, called me a witch and commanded me to go to his room and kneel down that I need to be disciplined. I walked slowly to his room and knelt down, right there I knew I had started the sorrowful journey of a motherless child, just like I saw a motherless girl in my neighborhood went through hell. I had knelt for about five minutes before he walked in and pet me to stop crying and brought me closer to his chest, he was sipping a glass of wine he brought from the sitting room, he sat on the bed and put the tiny me in between his legs and tried forcing the glass of wine into my mouth, though I struggled to push the cup away because the smell of the content was just too harsh, I knew it was bad for my age, as it’s an alcoholic drink he wanted a six years old child to gulp into her throat. But his strong grip on me made it impossible for me not to drink, the force at which he pushed the cup to my lips while he held firm my head to ensure the drink entered my mouth, moreover I gulped more than normal, the alcohol burnt my throat. Few minutes later I started feeling tipsy, he removed everything that covered my nakedness and lay me on the bed, I recall he also undressed himself and lay on the bed and then started whispering to my ears what to do to his body and he played with my body, and that was all I could recall, I guess I slept off at that point. I woke up at night, hungry, weak and felt pains all over my body, I stood up and went to urinate, I groaned with much pains and I saw blood stains all over my panties, I was more than shocked, but what do I know, I wore it back and went back to the room. As I walked back to the children’s room where I saw myself before, I was startled to see him seated and waiting for me, he asked how I was feeling and then threatened me that if I ever tell anyone about what happened that he would kill me, I watched as he made count with his fingers, the number of people he would kill, starting from my grandmother, and mentioned the names of all my aunties too, then, it felt he would really do it, I felt he could do anything he said he would. I recall the rape and abuse continued as I lived under his roof which was throughout my primary school, and no one noticed because he was so perfect in his scheme. It got to a point I knew he was doing me harms so I started struggling with him and he would
REVIEW: HOW YOU CAN BE LED BY THE SPIRIT OF GOD- BY KENNETH E. HAGIN
How You Can Be Led by the Spirit of God is one of Kenneth E. Hagin’s well-known works on spiritual guidance, the book was originally published in 1978. In this book, Hagin explores the idea that Christians should be led by the Holy Spirit, and also how they can learn to recognize and follow that leading in everyday life. Over the years, ‘How you can be led by the Spirit of God’ has been used in reading groups, Sunday school classes, and personal devotions. This review covers; 1. Chapter-by-chapter or theme-by-theme summary of the main arguments and teachings; 2. Evaluate the strengths and contributions of the book; 3. Offer critical reflections and potential weaknesses or cautions; 4. Comment on how this book fits within broader Christian spirituality and how a reader might engage with it. Below is an organized summary of the key content and major themes of How You Can Be Led by the Spirit of God. Preface and Background / Author’s Vision https://www.bing.com/ck/a?!&&p=dbe1a9dafd3d09ee543950996d879f9230d842b146ba29a63529f8b3d8a1aa31JmltdHM9MTc3Mzg3ODQwMA&ptn=3&ver=2&hsh=4&fclid=2366de9e-d8c2-672b-1ff2-cbe9d9766668&psq=HOW+TO+BE+LEAD+BY+THE+HOLYSPIRIT&u=a1aHR0cHM6Ly9naW5nZXJoYXJyaW5ndG9uLmNvbS9ob2x5LXNwaXJpdC1ndWlkYW5jZS8 Hagin begins by recounting a vision in 1959 in which he says the Lord appeared to him and told him He would teach him how to be led by the Spirit, and that Hagin, in turn, should teach it to others. The foundational claim is that in the New Testament, Christians are meant to be led by the Spirit, Romans 8:14. Hagin argues that while many Christian books emphasize being ‘Spirit-led’ in the abstract, few teach the method or practice of discerning the Spirit’s leadings. He warns that some practices of seeking guidance such as overreliance on prophets, signs, or external ‘voices’, have led people into error. Thus, the book seeks to set boundaries; it affirms that God does speak by prophecy, visions, dreams, etc. but insists the primary method is inward, which is via the believer’s regenerated spirit. Man: Spirit, Soul, Body A central foundational chapter is Hagin’s teaching on the tripartite nature of human existence: spirit, soul, and body. He insists that the “inward man” or human spirit is the essential seat of communion with God and the place through which God leads. Spirit vs. Soul: Hagin draws a distinction: the soul is the realm of mind, will, and emotions, the intellectual and emotional faculties, while the spirit is the deeper, inner part that communes with God and perceives spiritual truth. Body Submission: He argues that Christian growth involves subordinating the body (and its senses, cravings, and impulses) to the spirit, so that spiritual guidance is not overridden by fleshly impulses. Saving the Soul: Since at conversion the spirit is regenerated, Hagin further teaches that the soul must be “saved” or renewed, that is, restored to align with the spirit and God’s Word. Spirit-Consciousness and Developing Sensitivity One of Hagin’s practical emphases is that believers must become “spirit-conscious”: that is, increasingly aware of their inward spirit rather than dominated by their mind, emotions, or senses. This requires spiritual disciplines; Feeding on the Word: meditating, memorizing, and internalizing Scripture so that the Word can rise up in the spirit. Prayer, Worship, Silence: to quiet the soul and allow the spirit to hear from God. Sensitivity to Impressions, Promptings, Nudges: Hagin claims God often leads by very subtle internal impressions, rather than dramatic supernatural events. The Inward Witness (Number One Way God Leads) https://www.bing.com/ck/a?!&&p=d79fba8f1b4df028b57e6f3310ae6429766ffa66f8fae498832b66b77bf36661JmltdHM9MTc3Mzg3ODQwMA&ptn=3&ver=2&hsh=4&fclid=2366de9e-d8c2-672b-1ff2-cbe9d9766668&psq=HOW+TO+BE+LEAD+BY+THE+HOLYSPIRIT&u=a1aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuc2VlZHdvcmRjaHJpc3RpYW4uY29tLzIwMjUvMDUvZXhhbXBsZXMtb2YtYmVpbmctbGVkLWJ5LWhvbHktc3Bpcml0Lmh0bWw One of the key teachings in the book is that the inward witness is the primary, most reliable way God leads believers. This is described as a “feel-go” sensation in the spirit, a “velvety-like” confirmation, or the absence thereof, that directs decisions. He cautions: Do not override the inward witness with logic, emotions, or physical feelings. Wait for confirmation and avoid hasty decisions. Test every impression against Scripture and the believer’s spirit. Inward Voice, Prophecy, Visions, External Confirmations While Hagin elevates the inward witness, he does not exclude other modes of divine communication. He includes chapters on: Inward Voice / Conscience: The “still small voice” of the spirit that quietly speaks, often when the believer is in tune. Effects of the Spirit’s Indwelling: How the Spirit dwelling in us enables understanding, revelation, and inner guidance. Two Experiences: Hagin distinguishes between being born again (spiritual birth) and being filled with the Holy Spirit. The former connects one to God internally; the latter empowers outward works. Prophecies and Visions: He accepts them as valid, but insists they are secondary, and must not contradict the inward witness and Scripture. Following the Witness: Practical instructions on steps to “hear and obey” the inward impression, how to confirm, and when not to act. Practical Examples, Warnings, and Applications Throughout, Hagin weaves in autobiographical and pastoral stories, illustrating how he or others discerned guidance through their spirit, sometimes in ordinary life decisions. He also warns against pitfalls: Mistaking emotions or physical senses for divine guidance. Trying to receive guidance via signs or through the mind alone. Being impatient or forcing decisions when the spirit is not yet clear. Over-reliance on prophecy or external voices to guide, rather than one’s own spirit. By the end of the book, Hagin aims to help readers become more sensitive, disciplined, and confident in obeying the Spirit’s leading in all areas of life: business, relationships, ministry, etc. Strengths / Contributions This section highlights what Hagin does well, what the book offers to the reader. 1. Practical FocusUnlike many theological books about being “Spirit-led” in general terms, Hagin’s strength lies in giving practical steps and insight on how a believer can learn to discern and follow divine leading. This makes the book helpful to those seeking not just theory but application. 2. Emphasis on the Internal WitnessThe emphasis on the inward witness (the go/no-go feeling in the spirit) helps ground guidance in the believer’s own regenerated spirit, which fosters spiritual maturity and personal responsibility. 3. Balanced View of Prophecy and External ModesWhile giving priority to inward leading, Hagin does not dismiss prophetic, visionary, or external confirmation modes. He gives them their rightful place, urging testing and alignment with Scripture and inward witness. 4. Pastoral Tone
BIBLICAL STEPS TO GROW SPIRITUALLY AS A CHRISTIAN
Every Christian desire to grow spiritually and develop a deeper relationship with God. Spiritual growth is a lifelong journey that requires commitment, discipline, and faith. Just as physical growth requires nourishment and exercise, Christian spiritual growth requires consistent spiritual practices such as prayer, Bible study, obedience, and fellowship. The Bible encourages believers to grow continually in their faith. In 2 Peter 3:18, Scripture says, “But grow in the grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” This verse reminds believers that spiritual growth is not optional, it is an essential part of the Christian life. This pillar article explores biblical steps to grow spiritually as a Christian, providing practical guidance that can help believers deepen their faith, strengthen their relationship with God, and live according to biblical principles. Throughout this guide, we will also connect to related teachings such as Daily Habits That Help Christians Grow Spiritually and How to Hear God’s Voice in Confusing Times, creating a strong foundation for spiritual development. 1. Develop a Consistent Prayer Life Prayer is the foundation of spiritual growth. It is the primary way believers communicate with God and seek His guidance. Jesus emphasized the importance of prayer throughout His ministry. In Luke 18:1, believers are encouraged to always pray and not lose heart. Through prayer, Christians can: Seek God’s wisdom and direction Express gratitude and worship Receive strength during difficult times Develop intimacy with God A strong prayer life does not happen overnight. It requires intentional effort and daily commitment. For a deeper guide on building spiritual routines, read our article on Daily Habits That Help Christians Grow Spiritually, which explains practical daily disciplines that strengthen faith and spiritual maturity.http://DAILY HABITS THAT HELP CHRISTIANS GROW SPIRITUALLY | Priscilla Inspires 2. Study and Meditate on the Word of God Another important step in spiritual growth is studying the Bible. God’s Word provides guidance for every aspect of life. In Psalm 119:105, Scripture declares, “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.” Regular Bible study helps believers: understand God’s will strengthen their faith resist temptation gain wisdom for daily decisions Christians should not only read the Bible but also meditate on it and apply its teachings to their lives. Meditation on Scripture allows the truth of God’s Word to transform thoughts, attitudes, and actions. 3. Learn to Hear God’s Voice As believers grow spiritually, they develop the ability to recognize God’s guidance in their lives. God speaks to His people in various ways, including through Scripture, prayer, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Jesus explained this principle in John 10:27, saying, “My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.” Learning to discern God’s voice helps Christians make wise decisions and remain aligned with God’s will. For a more detailed explanation, read our sermon How to Hear God’s Voice in Confusing Times, which provides biblical insights on recognizing divine guidance.http://HOW TO HEAR GOD’S VOICE IN CONFUSING TIMES | Priscilla Inspires 4. Practice Daily Spiritual Discipline Spiritual growth requires consistent daily habits. Just as athletes train regularly to improve their performance, Christians must practice spiritual disciplines that strengthen their faith. Some important spiritual disciplines include: prayer Bible reading worship fasting serving others Developing these habits helps believers remain spiritually focused and connected to God. You can explore this topic further in the sermon Daily Habits That Help Christians Grow Spiritually, which explains how consistent practices lead to long-term spiritual maturity. 5. Fellowship With Other Believers Christianity is not meant to be practiced in isolation. Fellowship with other believers plays a vital role in spiritual growth. The early church demonstrated the importance of community in Acts 2:42, where believers devoted themselves to teaching, fellowship, and prayer. Fellowship provides several benefits: encouragement during difficult seasons accountability for spiritual growth opportunities to learn from others support in times of need Regular church attendance, Bible study groups, and Christian friendships can significantly strengthen faith. 6. Practice Obedience to God’s Word True spiritual growth is demonstrated through obedience. In James 1:22, believers are instructed: “Be doers of the word, and not hearers only.” Obedience means applying biblical principles in daily life. Examples include: forgiving others showing kindness and compassion avoiding sinful behavior making decisions that honor God Each act of obedience strengthens a believer’s relationship with God. https://www.bing.com/ck/a?!&&p=acf52408c691e4d40c610615df1079fc41e9aea3343cb6417b1bafa578a589a5JmltdHM9MTc3MzcwNTYwMA&ptn=3&ver=2&hsh=4&fclid=2366de9e-d8c2-672b-1ff2-cbe9d9766668&psq=STEPS+TO+GROW+SPIRITUALLY&u=a1aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGFpbHllZmZlY3RpdmVwcmF5ZXIub3JnL2NocmlzdGlhbi1zcGlyaXR1YWwtZ3Jvd3RoLw 7. Develop a Heart of Worship Worship is more than singing songs in church. It is a lifestyle that honors God in every aspect of life. In Psalm 34:1, the psalmist declares: “I will bless the Lord at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth.” Worship includes: praising God thanking Him for blessings acknowledging His goodness living a life that glorifies Him A heart of worship keeps believers spiritually focused and grateful. 8. Serve Others With Love Serving others reflects the heart of Christ. Jesus demonstrated servant leadership throughout His ministry. In Matthew 20:28, He said that He came not to be served but to serve. Christians can serve others through: acts of kindness volunteering in church helping those in need sharing the gospel Serving others strengthens compassion and reflects God’s love. 9. Guard Your Mind and Heart Spiritual growth requires discipline over thoughts and influences. The Bible encourages believers to focus on things that are pure and uplifting. In Philippians 4:8, Christians are instructed to think about whatever is true, noble, and praiseworthy. Guarding the mind includes: avoiding harmful influences surrounding yourself with positive people focusing on Scripture maintaining a Christ-centered mindset Thought Spiritual growth is a continuous journey that requires commitment, discipline, and faith. By following these biblical steps to grow spiritually as a Christian, believers can deepen their relationship with God and live a life that reflects Christ’s character. These steps include: developing a consistent prayer life studying the Word of God learning to hear God’s voice practicing daily spiritual disciplines fellowshipping with other believers obeying God’s Word maintaining a heart of worship serving others with love When Christians commit
